Women A little boy asked his mother, "Why are you crying?" "Because I'm a woman," she told him. "I don't understand," he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will." Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?" "All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say. The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"   God said: "When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children. I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly. I gave her strength to carry he! r husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed." "You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides. Permalink
11:30 | 29/Feb/2008 |  4 Comment(s)
The secret to true Love ! A Nice Article about Love By Swami Vivekananda I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool, she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me, and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love." This was how I saw it: As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds. This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you. For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings. Give and don't expect. Advise, but don't order. Ask, but never demand. It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice. It is the secret to true love. To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those who you love, and yet an unconditional caring. Permalink
15:50 | 27/Feb/2008 |  5 Comment(s)
Mumbais local language too good!!!! AMCHI MUMBAI [Tapori] Language Sophisticated Meaning In Bombay.... There's a minor problem Arre yaar, "Waanda" ho gaya There's a big problem Arre yaar, "Zol" ho gaya There's a huge problem....(unsolvable) Arre yaar,"Raada" ho gaya You'll be surprised Ekdam " Hill " jayega tu I am going out of this place Chal apun "Kaltii" marta hai Don't make a fool of others Dekh , tu "Shendi" mat laga sabko Just get out of here, you oversmart fool!! Chal e Shaaane,"Hawa" aan de I am not a stupid out here Apun kya "ALIBAUG" se nahi aaya There's some misunderstanding Arre kuch "Galat Faimili" ho gayi Do u drink daily? Tu kya roz "FULL TO" hota hai? See, You are afraid... Dekh, teri to "FAT" gayi Shall I just bash u? E Du kya "Kharcha Pani"? Just take him into a secret place Use jara "Khopche" me leke ja O... What a beautiful lady!! Kya "Zakaas Item" hai yaar!! What a sensuous/unexplainably sexy lady!! Kya "Raapchik Maal/Piece" hai yaar!! Don't just bluff..OK? E Jyaada "RAAG" mat de... Ya..she is staring at u.. buddy!!! Kya sahi "LINE" deti hai "Bhiduu"!! Don't take much tension... Jyaada "LOAD" nahi leneka kya?? Your clothes are very awkward!! Kya "ZAGMAG / DHINKCHAAK" pehna tune? I don't care about it much..!! Abe yaar , "Hata Saawan Ki Ghata" Please don't overbore me... Jyaada "PAKAA" mat be tu All this must be done without anyone's notice Sab kaam "SUUMDI" me hona chahiye kya ! Permalink
17:39 | 21/Feb/2008 |  4 Comment(s)
Saiyyan.......lovely song...... Hello Friends, I was just listning this track from "Kailash Kher" its an amezzing song and wordings are also written by Kailash kher. "Hire moti main na chahu maint to chahu sangam tera....." main to teri saiiyaan......tu hai mera.......... "saiyyan.....saiyyan...........tu jo chu le pyaar se aaram se mar jau, aja chanda bahon main tuj main hi gum ho jau main......tere naam main kho jaau....." Ban ke mala prem ki tere tan pe zar zar jau......baithu naiya prit ki sansaar se tar jau main..... Saiyyan.....Saiyyan..... Friends just listen the track its really very touchie.....     Permalink
13:24 | 14/Feb/2008 |  5 Comment(s)
Happy Valentine day.....! Happy valentine's Day To All Of You My Friends..... Permalink
22:06 | 31/Jan/2008 |  3 Comment(s)
Falling stars ! hello friends, I want to share a very lovely and unforgotable moment with all of you my friends.......... In one of my blog "love" i wrote one line "after all stars also fall" us se muje ek moment yaad aya. In Gujarat (kutchh) ther is one temple of "Maa Ashapura" is our Kuldevi wahan pe log Navratri main by walking jane ki mannat rakhte hai, people go by walking 100 kms, or 200 kms or some people go by walking from mumbai to kutchh also. Even i am going by walking since last 3 years 100 kms, by walking contineously it takes 2 nights and 3 days, and we have a group of lovely freinds we all go together and if  someone cant walk we encourage them to walk if not possible then they can go by any vehical. Most of time we walk in night as we cant bear the hot climate and heat of sun. So this time we were walking at night and all were like "ganpati path" or Om Namah Shivai" Or Gayatri Chalisa path kar rahe the, and on the way is very small small villages or not even a single house aisi place hoti hai to aasmaan jaise jamin ko chu raha ho waise dikhta hai pura aasmaan taaron se bhara hua tha and i love watching stars at night, so main to aasmaan ke sare taaron se mann hi mann main baatein kar rahi thi aur bahot khush thi itne saare taarein dekh kar i forgot tht my legs are paining as we all were walking contineously since last 2 days. Lekin i can never forget tht moment, i cant even explain tht how much i am happy that i have seen many many many "falling stars" i was like ! kya kahu ! i have no words. Actully muje taarein bahot pasand hai and  i was walking and ek taara tuta i was like jaldi se ek wish mang li, arre again aur tara tuta again wish mangi, and fir to morning 4 pm tak maine bahot tarrein tut te hue dekhe and wo hi meri unfogotable moment hai. jab maine mere saare friends se ye baat share ki sabne kaha arre tu ne to bahot saari wish maang li hongi, i said haan jab bhi taara tut te dekhti meri list badhti gayi ! sacchhi ! ab kya karu aisa hi hota hai ! I allways write about my journy experiance in my book so maine ye bhi likh ke rakha hai,so thought to share with all you my rediffiland friends.     Permalink
22:59 | 30/Jan/2008 |  2 Comment(s)
Kabhi yun bhi to ho ! Kabhi yun bhi to ho........ Dariya ka sahil ho pure chand ki raat ho aur tum aao....... Kabhi yun bhi to ho....... Pariyaon ki mehfil ho koi tumhari baat ho aur tum aao....... Kabhi yun bhi to ho....... Ye naram mulyam thandi hawayen jab ghar se tumahre guzre tumhari khushboo churaye mere ghar le aaye....... Kabhi yun bhi to ho......... Ye badal aisa tut ke barse mere dil ki tarah milne ko tumhara dil bhi tarse tum niklo ghar se....... Kabhi yun bhi to ho ! ! ! ! !   Permalink
15:46 | 29/Jan/2008 |  1 Comment(s)
Love ! Love..................   Love is what can be felt not told......, it can be given but not sold......, it comes when you least expect it and it leaves you when you really need it......   ~*~*~*~*~ Loving someone who dosent love you is like watching a star, u knw you can never reach, but u just have to keep on trying why not ? AFTER ALL STARS ALSO FALL !   Permalink
17:21 | 10/Jan/2008 |  3 Comment(s)
The sweetest word for some 1 u love truely.. The Sweetest Word Ever Said By Someone In True Love :   " I am jealous of the people You ever Hugged, Because for a moment They Held My World ..............." Permalink
16:49 | 10/Jan/2008 |  2 Comment(s)
One Glass Of Milk..........   Hello, Friends i am sharing one wonderful story with all of you......really i beleiv in this.......i hope you all will also like it. One Glass Of Milk One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry. He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door. Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water! . She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk. He drank it so slowly, and then asked, How much do I owe you?" You don't owe me anything," she replied. "Mother has taught us never to accept pay for a kindness." He said ... "Then I thank you from my heart." As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but his faith in God and man was strong also. He had been ready to give up and quit. Many year's later that same young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease. Dr. Howard Kelly was called in for the consultation. When he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room. Dressed in his doctor's gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. He went back to the consultation room determined to do his best to save her life. From that day he gave special attention to her case. After a long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it, then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent to her room. She feared to open it, for sh e was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally she looked, and something caught her attention on the side of the bill. She read these words ... "Paid in full with one glass of milk" (Signed) Dr. Howard Kelly. Tears of joy flooded her eyes as her happy heart prayed: "Thank You, God, that Your love has spread broad through human hearts and hands." There's a saying which goes something like this: Bread cast on the waters comes back to you. The good deed you do today may benefit you or someone you love at the least expected time.  If you never see the deed again at least you will have made the world a better place - And, after all, isn't that what life is all about? Permalink
16:11 | 7/Dec/2007 |  3 Comment(s)
Some lovely words of Jagjit singh Gazals Hello Friends..... i was just listening gazals of Mr. Jagjit singh, and such a wonderful wording ! so i thought to share some of very touchie words of the Gazal's.....   "Tere baarein main jab socha nahi tha......main tanha tha magar itna nahi tha..... teri tasvir se hoti thi baatein mere kamre main aaiena nahi tha....... mana ne ruth ne ke khel main hi,,,,,,bichad jayenge ye socha nahi tha..... one more lovely wordings from a famous Gazal :- pyar mujse jo kiya tumne to kya paaogee....... pyaar mujse jo kiya tumne to kya paaogee !!!!mere halat ki aandhi main bikhar jaogi....... ranj aur dard ki basti ka main bashinda hun.......ye to bass main hu ke is haal main bhi jinda hu.....khwaab kyun dekhu wo kal jispe main sharminda hu, main jo sharminda hua tum bhi to sharmaogi....... pyaar mujse jo kiya tumne to kya paaogee !!!! kyun mere saath koi aur pareshan rahe......meri duniya hai jo viran to viran rahe,,,,,,jindgi ka ye safar tumpe to aasan rahe humsafar mujko banaogi to pachtaogi..... pyaar mujse jo kiya tumne to kya paaogee !!!! i think the freinds who like gazal's of Mr.Jagjit Singh will Surely like this lovely wording.......